Saturday, February 19, 2011

An Interview with Warren Buffet

CNBC held a one hour interview with Warren Buffet, the richest man in the world today who has donated up to $31 billions to social activities. Let’s look into some interesting aspects of his way of life revealed in that interview :

 
Share of Thoughts
Lesson
1. He bought his first investment share at the age of eleven, but he said it was actually too late for he should have done that at earlier age.
MAKE INVESTMENT AT THE EARLIEST AGE POSSIBLE.
2. He bought a small field at the age of fourteen using the money he earned from delivering newspapers.
SMALL SAVINGS CAN ALWAYS BUY SOMETHING.

3. He still lives in his small house of three rooms where he has been living since his marriage fifty years ago. He said : “I have everything I need in that house.”
DON’T BUY ANYTHING YOU DON’T REALLY NEED.

4. He always drives his car himself wherever he hoes. He manages with no driver nor bodyguard.
BE YOUR OWN SELF, BE INDEPENDENT.
5. He never travels in his private jet although he owns the world’s biggest jet airliner company.
ALWAYS THINK THAT WHAT YOU HAVE IS ENOUGH.
6. His company, Berkshire Hathaway, has 63 affiliated companies. Every year he sends only one written message to each of his CEO, informing them the annual target of the year. He never holds any meeting nor summons them.

PUT THE RIGHT MAN IN THE RIGHT PLACE.

7. He only sets two rules for his CEOs :
1. Don’t waste the shareholder’s money
2. Don’t forget rule number 1
SET UP A TARGET AND MAKE THEM FOCUS ON THAT.
8. He doesn’t attach himself to any high society. He spends his time at home eating popcorns and watching TV.
DON’T TRY TO SHOWOFF, BE YOUR SIMPLE SELF.



A Happy person is not someone who is great in all things, but someone who can find simplicity in life.
Choose wisely your way of life!

Friday, February 18, 2011

10 Ways to Reduce Stress in Relationship


Everyone must have ever been under stress relating to either career, social or household affairs. Gratefully, good communication and self management can remove the stress occurring in marriage life.
No free time, office job strains, kids’ nuisances, bills to pay, never ending house chores. They all sound too familiar, don’t they? Stress haunts you in everything you do, and can affect your feeling anytime.
The way you communicate proves to be greatly influential. At one moment you are a calm person with no stress, but you can change drastically whenever pressure descends hard upon you.
When under stress you usually think too hasty along with the accompanying depressed mood. Sometimes it sooner makes you get angry with anyone directly in your contact, and this reasonably serves as a stress relief. Most times even the people you love are regardlessly subjected to your anger as well. They can be your spouse and even your loving children. They unfairly must share your anger as they are the ones you come to at the end of the day and keep you company.
So don’t let the pressure burdening you harm your family’s harmony in anyway. For the sake of your loved ones you must learn how to handle your stress positively. There are some tricks for this purpose which can help you, in moments of stress, avoid any conflict with your spouse.

1. Prevention
If the stress comes from some factor outside our family, don’t bring it home and unintentionally make your spouse share the stress. You must learn to handle the stress the way you professionally handle your work. See that your personal matters stay apart from your office business and vice versa.

2. Leave Others Alone
Indeed you will feel a bit relieved if you have the chance to release your stress upon someone else. But staying away for a while from your spouse could be an effective way to prevent conflict from springing up.
Wisely get your spouse to comprehend your stress and thus appreciately understand why you are keeping some distance which definitely will bring mutual goodness. And similarly when your spouse seem to be under stress, leave him/her alone for some time. See that no trifle household affairs burden your spouse more.

3. Self Understanding
In moments of stress you need to learn to know and control yourself and to restrain your emotion. It is not too difficult to do : just look into and evaluate your own feeling. So you could check yourself not to treat your spouse wrongly. You also could find out the moment when you start to feel stressed, what the reason is and how to control yourself accordingly.

4. Responsibility
Be conscious of your responsibility that comes with your marriage life, either as a husband or wife. Be conscious of your obligation to keep your relation in harmony. Don’t let any stress damage the marital bond that has existed so far. Live your life in full responsibility.

5. Self Control
It is you that take control of your own emotion yourself. You automatically can control your stress the moment you learn how to control your min. No one can control your emotion and feeling unless you let it happen. Anyhow your ability to control emotion depends largely on your desire, discipline and will.

6. Stop Worrying
Excessive worries are not good for your health. Worries come when anticipate something in the future while doing nothing about it. But if you make some plan for the future, it makes you feel ready and you find nothing to worry about.
Indeed household life has questions about the future : would your marriage endure, would some temptation come to break the marital relation, and more and more unanswered questions. Stop living in the future! Just think what we can do in the present. Think of today!

7. Don’t Stay Still
When you are under pressure, it is so easy for you to give up. Winston Churchill once said, “When we are walking into difficulties, just keep on walking. Don’t stop and give up!”
Try to relax and think smart, but don’t just give up. If you give up when you are having hard times with your spouse, it will haunt your memory for a long time to come.

8. Go Away
When your relation is in tension, you might just need to go some place to clear your mind. But it isn’t necessary to join a package tour to distant place for this purpose. It will be enough just by doing some activity that can make you forget what problem you are facing, for example, doing some sport. Surveys prove that physical activity helps minimizing the production of the hormone that causes stress. So by putting some distance from your stress, you can think more clearly in dealing with the stress.

9. Be Flexibility
You must read the situation to detect who really is under pressure, your spouse or yourself. By being flexible, it guarantees an easier way to deal with the tension occurring in your relation with your spouse.

10. Ask Others
Consulting other more experienced people might be the best way to help you dealing with your stress and controlling yourself. Ask them how was it like when under stress and how was their feeling at that moment. That way you learn how they reacted and if they didn’t do it well, you always can try to do better and harder for self control.

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Only If You Run

Julian Plenti - Only If You Run .mp3
Found at bee mp3 search engine


I've had my frustrations about the pains of daily life
I've tasted degradation and found the lace and candle light
But we have the weights, we have the measures of our days and nights
I've had my frustrations, but now, I've found my place

And you will make it
But only if you run

These lonely dedications I've found, they bring me peace and light
When three-fold applications of doubt surround my fate, you might say
We have the weights, we have to wage an assault on what it is
'Cause harmless medications abound, and you're not sick

 You will make it
  But only if you run

 (Surprise x 4)

 You will make it
 But only if you run